How to Make Beautiful Flower Arrangements

I’ve been with this girl for about a year now off and on. We’ve had ups and downs and I wound up moving about 12 hours away but we’ve tried to keep it working because we love one another. I’m 27. She’s 24.

I offered to move back up there about 2 months ago because she was always suspecting I was cheating on her and she said the distance was too hard. She said she wanted me to, so I quit my job. I turned in notice to my landlord. I found a home for my dog. I packed up everything I had and she called me the day before I was set to leave to tell me she’d changed her mind and didn’t want me there. We broke up for about 3 weeks and then she called me crying saying she couldn’t stand to be without me and that she wanted to work it out. By that time, I had just got my life back together here and told her I wouldn’t move yet and she agreed we could continue to make it work with the distance. I made plans to come see her this following weekend.

Yesterday (Valentines Day) I arranged my schedule so I could talk to her because she said she wanted me to and that she’d be missing me. I had asked where her new office was so I could send flowers and she told me she didn’t want anything. She just wanted to talk to me all night. She didn’t answer her phone when I tried to call her (3 times) so I decided to go get my brothers (12 and 9) to spend the night here to keep me company and so my dad and step mom could go out. She finally gets a hold of me and when I mentioned coming to visit next weekend, she said "If you can’t get it off work, I understand." I said "I already have it off work." She said "oh.."

I said "If something came up on your end, it’s okay. Just say so." She said "Something came up." I asked what and she said "Well we’re having a Mary Kay party here on Friday."

I said "That’s fine We still have Saturday and Sunday together and it’s a long drive. I would be late getting there Friday anyway." She said "I just don’t want you here this coming weekend. I love you, but I have other plans."

I’m hurt and thinking maybe it’s time to end this for good. Why would she do this? Do you think there’s another guy?

Should I just be done?
If she’s pregnant, then that’s another problem. She’s been claiming she’s a virgin and waiting for marriage since we got together.
When I moved, we talked about it at length. I was offered my dream job here and, at the time, she was going to join me in a month or so. I told her I wouldn’t take the job if she didn’t want me to go but she said she wanted me to and that she would follow in a few weeks, then she told me she’d changed her mind and wanted to wait longer after the move had been made.

Man ol’ Man…you have some damn patience I must say.

You won’t like this hard advice but I must tell you this:

Cut off totally with her. Move back get your job back do whatever asss kissing you have to do. Get your life back in order. Learn a valuable life’s lesson in this. She is 24 and very flighty. She really doesn’t know what the helll she wants in life or who she wants. You can’t risk money, time and effort into such a gal.

Move on. Do it yesterday. Be strong. Don’t back slide with her. She has NO respect for you. No way in helll would I do this to a man.~~> Who has changed his lifestyle for me. Then tell him I have stupid asss Mary Kay Party in place of him.

Listen to my advice and don’t back slide one bit.

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