Comments on: How do I get the step dad to stay out of Mine and the Ex wife’s business? http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/ Unique Flower Arrangements Made Easy - DIY Flower Craft Tue, 17 Aug 2010 06:43:59 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: TheHatedOne http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2414 TheHatedOne Thu, 04 Mar 2010 20:26:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2414 where is your lawyer? what does the divorce agreement say? Document all the nonsense and take them back to court to get full custody. again where is your lawyer? where is your children's lawyer? spend the extra protecting yourself. you've told us just a portion of the story im sure but remember the sooner you all get you stuff together the happier the kids will be.<br><b>References : </b><br>im a stepdad trying to negotiate the battlefield of stepkids, ex husbands and wifes with exes. where is your lawyer? what does the divorce agreement say? Document all the nonsense and take them back to court to get full custody.

again where is your lawyer? where is your children’s lawyer? spend the extra protecting yourself.

you’ve told us just a portion of the story im sure but remember the sooner you all get you stuff together the happier the kids will be.
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im a stepdad trying to negotiate the battlefield of stepkids, ex husbands and wifes with exes.

]]> By: rie http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2413 rie Thu, 04 Mar 2010 19:37:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2413 Request once again that your ex-wife tell him to stay out of your business,& if that doesn't work,get a restraining order against him,so he can't come near you,You don't have to deal with him,& you need to stand up for yourself,even if it takes getting an attorney for this issue.BOL2U<br><b>References : </b><br> Request once again that your ex-wife tell him to stay out of your business,& if that doesn’t work,get a restraining order against him,so he can’t come near you,You don’t have to deal with him,& you need to stand up for yourself,even if it takes getting an attorney for this issue.BOL2U
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]]> By: Draco S http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2412 Draco S Thu, 04 Mar 2010 19:22:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2412 Every one has given excellent advice. Document everything. Follow the rules of your divorce to the letter. Keep a copy of it in the glove compartment and call th cops if they refuse to give you your children for visitation. Ignore the step dad, he is insecure and just looking to belittle you for his ego. Go through the legal channels to get more time with your kids. Move away from there as soon as you can (ie when your kids at 18). Good luck to you. ~D~<br><b>References : </b><br> Every one has given excellent advice. Document everything. Follow the rules of your divorce to the letter. Keep a copy of it in the glove compartment and call th cops if they refuse to give you your children for visitation. Ignore the step dad, he is insecure and just looking to belittle you for his ego. Go through the legal channels to get more time with your kids. Move away from there as soon as you can (ie when your kids at 18). Good luck to you.

~D~
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]]> By: CHRIS http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2411 CHRIS Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:37:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2411 first thing I would start immediately is not to talk with him at all about the kids or child support anything that the divorce agreement has handled. That's the way I would answer is accusations and not to play in to his games. Simple statement that is handled in the divorce agreement. The first time he did not allow me my children they would find themselves in court. I would keep a notebook and write all these things down in, they may come in handy some day. Something that worked for me is when the situation permits say something like hmmm you sure to have a good mommy. It will be repeated. It will go along way. Things are going to be different and putting two families together will not be easy. Only you two know your given situation and some ideas you get here will work and some will not. Proceed with care. You have to remember what your ex liked and how you used to get her to do what you wanted.Then you use that if you can and it should help with her keeping her new husband under control. He sounds a little different type person than you are. so he probably will not be around for ever. good luck<br><b>References : </b><br> first thing I would start immediately is not to talk with him at all about the kids or child support anything that the divorce agreement has handled. That’s the way I would answer is accusations and not to play in to his games. Simple statement that is handled in the divorce agreement. The first time he did not allow me my children they would find themselves in court. I would keep a notebook and write all these things down in, they may come in handy some day. Something that worked for me is when the situation permits say something like hmmm you sure to have a good mommy. It will be repeated. It will go along way. Things are going to be different and putting two families together will not be easy. Only you two know your given situation and some ideas you get here will work and some will not. Proceed with care. You have to remember what your ex liked and how you used to get her to do what you wanted.Then you use that if you can and it should help with her keeping her new husband under control. He sounds a little different type person than you are. so he probably will not be around for ever. good luck
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]]> By: Lemon Drop Martini http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2410 Lemon Drop Martini Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:08:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2410 They're both dicks! At the risk of seeing a little less of your kids, for your own happiness and that of your wifes, please speak to an attorney about YOU & your EX dealing with each other about the kids and that HE should not allowed to speak to you. If it means a restraining order or anything to that effect. THEN, please pack your wife and MOVE if possible. You both don't deserve this mess.<br><b>References : </b><br> They’re both dicks! At the risk of seeing a little less of your kids, for your own happiness and that of your wifes, please speak to an attorney about YOU & your EX dealing with each other about the kids and that HE should not allowed to speak to you. If it means a restraining order or anything to that effect. THEN, please pack your wife and MOVE if possible. You both don’t deserve this mess.
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]]> By: punchbuggy http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2409 punchbuggy Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:51:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2409 Pay what your divorce decree says and nothing more. You are there to support your children and not your ex and especially not her new spouse. You must have a child visitation section in your divorce decree. Do exactly what it says. Keep a copy in the glove box of your car. If that fool tells you that you can't have them you take out that cell phone and call the police. They will get the kids for you. You will need to show them the court ordered visitation. Then you take your decree and go to Family Court. You want a modification of the visitation to include more visitation. Now if she tries to take you to court for more money - she has to show a change of circumstance where she is poorer than she was. She must produce IRS statements for her and the new spouse. Wish you luck.<br><b>References : </b><br> Pay what your divorce decree says and nothing more. You are there to support your children and not your ex and especially not her new spouse.
You must have a child visitation section in your divorce decree. Do exactly what it says. Keep a copy in the glove box of your car. If that fool tells you that you can’t have them you take out that cell phone and call the police. They will get the kids for you. You will need to show them the court ordered visitation.

Then you take your decree and go to Family Court. You want a modification of the visitation to include more visitation.

Now if she tries to take you to court for more money – she has to show a change of circumstance where she is poorer than she was. She must produce IRS statements for her and the new spouse.

Wish you luck.
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]]> By: Ann http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2408 Ann Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:07:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2408 . Have you asked a attorney? This is more like blackmail and the kids are her pawns. Document everything, talk to a attorney. You have a lot going for you and you need to get help before she ups the stakes.<br><b>References : </b><br> .
Have you asked a attorney? This is more like blackmail and the kids are her pawns.
Document everything, talk to a attorney. You have a lot going for you and you need to get help before she ups the stakes.
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]]> By: terri http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2407 terri Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:53:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2407 It sounds like you are a wonderful father.Wait in the car for the kids to come out.After that altercation I would never set foot in his house again.<br><b>References : </b><br> It sounds like you are a wonderful father.Wait in the car for the kids to come out.After that altercation I would never set foot in his house again.
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]]> By: reel lady http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2406 reel lady Thu, 04 Mar 2010 16:12:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2406 YOU CAN'T THE STEP WILL ALWAYS THINK HE CAN STEP ON YOU YOUR EX WILL ALWAYS KEEP HIM INVOLVED THE STEP DAD WILL WALK THE BRIDE DOWN THE AISLE YOUR EX IS "D" WHIPPED GOOD LUCK<br><b>References : </b><br> YOU CAN’T
THE STEP WILL ALWAYS THINK HE CAN STEP ON YOU
YOUR EX WILL ALWAYS KEEP HIM INVOLVED
THE STEP DAD WILL WALK THE BRIDE DOWN THE AISLE
YOUR EX IS "D" WHIPPED
GOOD LUCK
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]]> By: woodswalker http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/comment-page-1/#comment-2405 woodswalker Thu, 04 Mar 2010 15:37:59 +0000 http://diyflowercraft.com/blog/433/how-do-i-get-the-step-dad-to-stay-out-of-mine-and-the-ex-wifes-business/#comment-2405 you need to go straight to your lawyer and see if there is some type of restraining order you can file on this guy. there has to be a law that will protect your rights to a reasonable exchange when it comes to your children. you may be advised to have a law enforcement officer present during these exchanges, which would be in your favor if Prince Charming chooses to act stupid then you have a very good and reliable witness for the court date that i foresee in your future! good luck!<br><b>References : </b><br> you need to go straight to your lawyer and see if there is some type of restraining order you can file on this guy. there has to be a law that will protect your rights to a reasonable exchange when it comes to your children. you may be advised to have a law enforcement officer present during these exchanges, which would be in your favor if Prince Charming chooses to act stupid then you have a very good and reliable witness for the court date that i foresee in your future! good luck!
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